CLAIRVOYANT HEALING, COLON CLEANSING, AND HYPNOTHERAPY: THE WEIRDEST THINGS WE’VE DONE IN THE NAME OF HEALTH | SELFIE EPISODE 45

Sarah saw a hypnotherapist. Kristen went to a faith healer. One of us has had her colon roto-routed. We are talking about the most wacky and woo-woo things we’ve done in the pursuit of better health.
In this episode we talked about:

 

 

Wednesday’s Child: Five siblings separated in foster care

5 siblings

Every Wednesday I feature a child recently highlighted by a local Wednesday’s Child newscast to share the stories
of children from around the country who are waiting for a family. My hope is that this can broaden exposure for
the children highlighted, but also serve as a reminder that these children represent thousands of children currently
in the foster-care system. Perhaps their stories will inspire you to consider opening your home to a child needing a family.
For more information and to learn about other waiting children, visit AdoptUsKids.

 

Life Lately

Happy Place

Karis did not appreciate the Frozen logo on my bargain-bin sunscreen 
so she made her own cover for it.

Kembe won the “ball of champions” at basketball camp for a second week this summer and decided, all on his own, to give the ball to a friend. Love this kid’s big heart.

Thank you, Trader Joe’s, for this attempt to legitimize, market, and profit off of day drinking.
Not sure whether to be grateful or concerned for humanity.

3 years old, 6 feet tall. The nurse is on tiptoes. Jesus be a rapidly maturing frontal lobe. 😬😩

School of Rock!
Our house is a skateboard graveyard and I finally found a project to put them to use. Swipe left to see the boys’ new skateboard deck bookshelves.

 

 

Friday Finds: Dorm Room Essentials

1. The 5-Ingredient College Cookbook
2. BedShelfie The Original Bedside Shelf
3. CoutureBridal Farmhouse Duvet Cover Set Twin 66×90 Blush
4. AmazonBasics 5-Piece Bed-In-A-Bag – Twin/Twin Extra Long
5. Genesis 6-Inch Clip-On Fan – Convertible Table-Top
6. The Naked Roommate: And 107 Other Issues You Might Run Into
7. Elite Cuisine EBK-200BL Maxi-Matic 3-in-1 Multifunction Breakfast Center
8. Bedside Caddy Hanging Storage / Organizer with Laptop Spa
9. DormCo The Mini Shelf Supreme – Adjustable Shelving DormCo

Women Helping Women || On Thursdays I post from the vault. This post is from June 2008.

On Thursdays I post from the vault. This post is from June 2008.

The Women’s Program of Heartline Haiti is all about teaching women to care for their babies and find industry and self-care for themselves. They assist in prenatal and parenting classes, and teach women a trade, like sewing or crocheting purses. Here is a story about one of the women in their program:

Today was one of those days when the women’s program did its job. It worked. I don’t know how the end result will turn out but I saw women surrounding one of their own and coming to her aid with what they have learned. In our program we have two groups. Prenatal; and then Child Development after the baby is born. A young girl Chelor (pronounced She-Love) has been coming on and off since she was pregnant. She lives in a hostile situation where she is clearly not welcome, neither is her baby. Her breast feeding efforts have not been going well and they claim her baby is cursed. She wants to go back to the village because she has no where else to go.Chelor is just a young girl who does not know how to be a mom and does not do well processing the information we give her. Her baby, Love Kendy, has gained little weight since his birth three months ago and he is failing to thrive. Everyone is frustrated. We try encouraging her, showing her how to hold the baby and so on. She is not getting it and he is not getting the milk he needs to thrive.

Today was heartbreaking. She would put him to the breast for just seconds, he would fuss, she would be agitated, he would cry. They just weren’t a team – weren’t working together for the milk to flow.Several experienced breast feeding moms gathered around Chelor and helped her position the baby. It wasn’t working. Another mom took the baby, put him to her breast and fed him. For a long time. It may be the only real meal the child has received. Ever. Wet-nursing mom showed Chelor how effortless and stress free this should be. All moms were giving opinion, encouragement and we gathered around Chelor to pray God’s protection around her.

This young girl is steeped in superstition, believes in curses, is too stressed out to feed her baby who is also stressed and pulling away from her. It is a dire situation. I hope and pray we helped her today. I cried because of how bad Chelor’s situation is and I also cried because I saw women gather around her and function as a women’s group – all helping another hurting woman. That’s how this program is supposed to function. Women learn valuable information and life skills and pass it on to other women.

Women in Haiti are often denied basic learning and growing opportunities. They are stuck in superstition and misinformation. Often babies die because a mom is missing basic care-giving skills. We are seeking to change this woman by woman week by week. Pray for Chelor and Love Kendy!

-Beth McHoul

Perhaps this story of women gathering around each other can inspire us to gather around other women of the world and share our own resources. If you would like to hear more about how this program changes the lives of women, or if you would like to donate toward their efforts, check out Heartline Haiti’s website.

Wednesday’s Child: Shane

Every Wednesday I feature a child recently highlighted by a local Wednesday’s Child newscast to share the stories of children from around the country who are waiting for a family. My hope is that this can broaden exposure for the children highlighted, but also serve as a reminder that these children represent thousands of children currently in the foster-care system. Perhaps their stories will inspire you to consider opening your home to a child needing a family. For more information and to learn about other waiting children, visit AdoptUsKids.

Drinking As A Coping Skill: How Much Is Too Much? | Selfie Episode 44

We’re talking about drinking and when to know when it’s a problem with Kerry Cohen, author of Lush: A Memoir.  Many of us like a glass of wine or two to wind down at the end of the day, and there is a preponderance of cultural references to women and drinking as a kind of social contract. Kerry helps us unpack that messy middle between healthy drinking and full-blown addiction.
In this episode we talked about:

Life Lately

Loved getting to see my friends in the premeire of #theroadtoedmond today. Congrats to @trippfuller @nathanlovestrees and @jdavidtrotter for a brave and bold film exploring the tricky intersection of faith and sexuality.

Don’t recall that passage but good to know.
A gorgeous night with a cute date while the older kids are at camp. If you are local this all-star cast of Annie was SO GOOD and playing the next 2 nights!

The Californians: we really do talk like that.

These three are off to sleep-away camp for the first time. By this age I’d been going to camp for years, but I’ve been ambivalent to send mine yet because a) church camps around here are an entire industry and stupidly expensive, and b) some of the practices of evangelical church camps make me squicky. Anyway, I found one I’m comfortable with, and two of the three are very excited. One is having a hard time parting with his phone. 😂 #sorrynotsorry #gomeetjesus #butinacasualway

Fried things.
❤️❤️❤️ @whoorl
Starting a gofundme for teen boy grocery bills.
To the man who flipped @jaftahowerton off while we took this photo: WE KNOW. WE ARE KIDDING.

Friday Finds: Summer Fun for Kids