That's what SHE said: the myth of quality time, how to compliment little girls, & things to do and theatre to see


In this prosaic op-ed piece, Frank Bruni debunks the myth of "quality time" through the discoveries revealed to him by committing to his annual family beach trip and staying for the entire seven days and seven nights. In earlier years, he admits to joining the vacation late or leaving early because he craved his space and thought shorter would be better - quality over quantity. But over the years he has found that there is no substitute for physical presence. That as human beings, We reach out for help at odd points; we bloom at unpredictable ones. The surest way to see the brightest colors, or the darkest ones, is to be watching and waiting and ready for them. 

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After a lunch with old girlfriends, Sarah Powers reflects on the compliment culture engrained in female relationships and discusses the ways in which to shape that culture for our daughters. When a young girl hears how pretty she looks in her princess dress time and time again, she may begin to think she is less pretty without it. How do we steer compliments away from "the look" into ones of creativity and activity? Powers offers four concrete examples of how to change the dialogue from "You look so pretty in pink" to "I love all the colors you have going today! What's your favorite?"


I was impatient when my mother’s attention was occupied elsewhere. But my 9-year-old children, when they see me on my phone, feel something more intense, something closer to indignation. They are shut out twice over: They see that I am otherwise occupied, but with what, they have no idea. This is what makes the smartphone such a rich source of paradoxical guilt for the current generation of parents. We are considered at once overbearing and totally oblivious, so besotted by our own children that it’s unseemly, yet so absorbed by our phones, so unaware as precious moments of childhood slip by, that it’s shameful.

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It’s not all about you. It’s usually about someone else being unhappy with his or her life. He or she is complaining about stuff that isn’t directed at you. Get over yourself. For real. When you take sh*t personally, you’re setting yourself up for failure. You can’t have a balanced life while you’re busy stressing about the crap that’s happening with the inconsequential people around you.


'Tis the season in New York City - film festivals, bar sing-alongs, and good theatre (always). This weekend marks the 53rd New York Film Festival with Robert Zemeckis' The Walk opening the festival. Other main slate films include Spielberg's Bridge of Spies  and Don Cheadle's Miles Ahead. For a fun night out, Union Hall in Park Slope will be hosting a King and Queen of Pop Sing-Along with all of your favorite Michael Jackson and Madonna hits. Come dressed to Vogue. And if you haven't caught the much loved and highly respected The Christians at Playwrights Horizons, the show has now be extended through October 25th. Also be sure to check out the Picasso Sculpture exhibit at the MoMA.

In SoCal, after you have visited  the brand new contemporary art museum, The Broad Museum in Downtown Los Angeles, mark your calendars for La Jolla Playhouse's Without Walls Festival  happening October 9 -11, full of family friendly productions and activities. At Segerstrom Center for the Arts, Russia's Mariinsky Ballet and Orchestra will perform Raymonda in its entirety this weekend only.  Segerstrom will also open their 2015-16 Spotlight Series with the popular Forbidden Broadway, October 1 -4. 

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